Not Three People — Just Three Different Emotional Frequencies

There’s a question I get asked — or at least quietly wondered — when people first open one of my journals or read a blog post:

“Wait… did three people write this?”

Short answer?
Nope.

Longer answer?
Also no. But it’s not that simple.

The Choose Your Voice series is built on one truth I’ve learned the hard way:

Different days need different voices.

Some days, I need softness.
Some days, I need fire.
Some days, I need to sit in the ache and just be with it — without fixing, filtering, or fighting.

So I let my writing respond to that.

Instead of forcing one tone to carry the weight of every emotion, I let the voices shift.
And over time, they became more distinct.
Not characters. Not alter egos. But recognizable emotional frequencies.

And I named them — to make it easier for you (and me) to recognize the invitation each one carries:

Quinn – the soft voice. Gentle. Safe. Unhurried.
Emberly – the firestarter. Irreverent. Raw. Bold.
Rhyana – the truth weaver. Poetic. Still. Reflective.

They’re all me.
Just tuned differently.
And maybe — if you listen closely — they’re a little bit you, too.

Written in three tones — not by three people.
This journal lets you choose the voice you need in the moment: soft, bold, or quietly wise.
All written from one source, just tuned to different emotional frequencies.

Some days, I want kindness.
Some days, I want honesty laced with side-eye.
Some days, I want the kind of language that lets grief feel like poetry and healing feel like remembering.

That’s what these voices offer.

Not a formula.
Not a solution.
Just a place to land — a conversation with your own emotional weather, held on paper.

So yeah, it’s a quiet rebellion.
Against perfection.
Against being palatable.
Against the idea that one voice should always be “enough.”

Choose the one that fits.
Switch when it doesn’t.
They’re all yours now.

“They” say people always read the P.S. So here it is: You’re allowed to take up space. With ink. With truth. With whatever voice gets you through.